Orthodox Christian Serbs observe four such days each year, when families visit cemeteries to light candles and say prayers at the graves of their loved ones.
For many Serbs in Kosovo, especially those whose relatives were buried in cemeteries that are now located in ethnic Albanian communities, observing the holiday has since 1999 been a practice that endangered their personal safety, but also brought with it a particular heartbreak – that of finding the grave of a loved one desecrated.
Serb Orthodox cemeteries and chapels located at the grounds are regularly vandalized, with tombstones broken and crosses ripped out, while those visiting the graves are escorted by UNMIK police.
The divided town of Kosovska Mitrovica is one such example – while the northern majority-Serb part has some Albanian and Bosniak inhabitants, no Serbs live in the southern, Albanian part.
But the Serb cemetery is located south of the Ibar River, which divides the troubled town. Yesterday, UNMIK and Kosovo police escorted some 400 Serbs from the north to the graveyard. As has been the case in the past eight years, they found it desecrated and derelict.
Reports said that approximately 80 percent of the Orthodox tombstones there have been vandalized.
"Albanian gravestones look brand new compared to ours, which are almost all destroyed, especially lately. The only reason why a tombstone can bother someone is if they mean to destroy any sign that we ever existed here," Nenad Milenković, a Serb from northern Kosovska Mitrovica, said after visiting the graves of his parents.
Bisenija Kovačević, who lost her husband 12 years ago, said that while she used to be able to go to his grave each week, this is now only possible when armed escort is organized.
"What hurts the most is that I can't visit his grave freely when I feel the need to. There's nothing worse than arriving to find a grave that no longer has a headstone," she said.
More that 500 Serb graves have been desecrated since 1999, when the new burials there stopped. The Albanian cemetery in the northern part of the town, agencies reported, is not damaged.
A similar scene is reported in the Serb graveyard in Priština. Some Serbs are considering moving the remains of their family members out of the Priština cemetery and to the places where they can be properly protected.
Only around 20 Serbs yesterday braved visiting the graveyard, to quickly light candles and remove the grass and weed from the neglected graves.
Ilija Trajković of Priština, now displaced and living in the Serb enclave of Gračanica, came to the cemetery in a UN vehicle Saturday. He says the scene he and his wife find each time they arrive is "more and more horrible".
"This here looks horrible. Each time we find new tombstones broken. If you wish to see the degree of a society's development, come to a graveyard, and it will be obvious," he was bitter.
Fear, and the recent ethic Albanians' unilateral declaration of the province's independence, are thought to be the reason why so few Serbs dared to visit the cemetery yesterday.
But some, like Snežana Borović, one of a handful of Serbs who still live in Priština, says she came, because she is "not afraid to die".
The parameter around the Serb Orthodox cemetery in Priština was secured by KFOR soldiers and members of the Kosovo police.
NOVAKE -- Unknown perpetrators Saturday took off the bell from a local church in Novake, the village of Serb returnees.
The locals in the village in Metohija, western Kosovo, are blaming ethnic Albanians for the desecration, which came as the villagers were in a cemetery some two kilometers away, marking ZaduÃ‚Âšnice (All Souls Day), a religious Serb Orthodox Christian holiday dedicated to the dead.
The bell was later found and recovered by KFOR soldiers in a stream.
Local priest Branko Gligorijevic told reporters that some 30 Serb families, who returned to the village after being driven out by Albanians in 1999 had just come home from the cemetery when they heard a "crashing sound".
"We turned back immediately, only to find that the bell from the church was missing," Gligorijevic said.
According to him, the villagers immediately called in KFOR and a search was organized."Sometime after 5 p.m. we found the bell in the stream and KFOR helped us take it back to the village. It is disgraceful that ethnic Albanians are doing this to us on ZaduÃ‚Âšnice, but the Serb church bell will ring in Novake again," Gligorijevic was quoted.